Possible Reasons Why 80% Of Nigerian Parents Beat Their Child Even Up to Adolescent, Teenage and Youthful Age. – Galant9ja Reporters Ha...
– Galant9ja Reporters Had Acclaim With Evidence In Nigeria, beating is commonly the easiest way of enforcing, luring children to submit to their parents wish.
– It enables the child to understand the consequences of going against their rules at all time, failure to follow their parents as instructed results in punishment, mostly spanking.
– The reasons are numbered below;
1 Out of love for their children, loving a child is a tough and tremendous effort,so spanking is necessary to acquire desire result from a child.
2 Another reason Is to be feared and to be respectful, it force a child to submit to the parents order.
3 Parents beat their children to train them on how to make accurate decision.
4 Parents wants their children to rely and believe in one self, every decision taken by children must have an out come, every child must be able to face any outcome of their behavior.
5 To maintain discipline and home training, parents understand these as the most important aspect of a child's life,they want to set standards among their child and them self's.
6 Finally bringing out their child weakness and strength, so as they will not damage their self esteem.
"Abdullahi mamud (write up)"
NIGERIAN PARENT WONT STOP BEATING THEIR CHILDREN
The system has been introduced to Nigerian mummies especially dad's who may
decide to strokes and whirl up their child even at his or her youthful age.
Though the bible do instruct and command to train up a child in the way he should go, a well admonished child must not depart from the parental discipline right from birth but in Nigeria this has become very a prominent case around, mostly 90% of parents that quoted the law and take it offhand, unlike making their children feels menial and maltreated as they frequently rely on this beating and flogging method of home training .
In developed countries across Africa best attempt to take up their kids in good admonition process, a tactical sample of theirs is to provide the children a reliable care, proper education and extra moral behaviour, exposing them to the necessary things upfront even spending much time to convene kids in families asking what they deserve, and can even play with them in a while as well as their youths.
Apparently, a Nigerian parent find it hard time to recruit their offsprings and offer to them a liable guidelines or not to speak of letting them young kids exercise what they intend to do positively, instead more burdens are laid upon a child like unrest moments when he/she supposed to be relaxing, more over we don't care about that a proper education motivate, enhanced and do synchronized a child mood , all relied on natural sense to be acquired.
Firing a child with odd anger will never preclude misbehaving rather it stiffs his mind, perhaps much beating them won't help to eradicate the stubbornness, else they grow up in sense of mastering the maltreatment, sticking to it and one can even insist to adapt the pattern used by parent his or her parent as discipline, but the offsprings take it as punishment.
The best to do is yet to be sensitized by Nigerians
Not that laying the rod on them are not good, remember there is always a saying that "too much of Everything is a disease".
Endeavor to make a decision and pray to God for ability for nurturing your child not to circuit in devastating manner, take from white men their examples, children are gift from God to supplement family.
Youths at their age worth to be exposed to lifetime predicaments, they are also privileged to study about sexual education as well.
Nigeria had seriously and purposeful needs to amend then improves on the system of child formal home training for a better tomorrow in terms of future stability and legal behavior of the children.
ARTICLE WRITTEN BY: Abdullahi mamud
Summarized by: Marcus De Prince.
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